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I'm sure you've heard that you should avoid "ordinary boring conversational topics" when flirting. Experts will tell you that it's a sure way to make the girl yawn. And that's no way to get her to remember you after you leave.

I'm sure you've heard that you should avoid "ordinary boring conversational topics" when flirting. Experts will tell you that it's a sure way to make the girl yawn. And that's no way to get her to remember you after you leave.

I have a different view. I think you can use ordinary boring conversational topics to your advantage, if you do it right. And I'll teach you how to do it right.

What are the so-called "boring questions"?

What do you do?

Are you in school?

Have any children?

How long have you lived here?

Of course you don't want to ask question after question like this, or she'll feel like she's on a job interview. But there's a right way to go about asking these questions and still flirt well.

Here's the key principle:

BORING QUESTION FLIRTING RULE: If you ask a "boring question", you must PLAY with her answer.

I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe's in school, I'll ask her what she's studying.

And then, I play with her answer.

Here's an example:

If she says she's a massage therapist, I say, "Oh good, so if I suddenly get the worst cramp ever in my hand, you'd totally be able to heal me, right?"

She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.

This approach will work almost every time. And it's fun.

Try it. The next time you're talking with an attractive woman you've just met, give it a shot. And don't restrict yourself just to women you're attracted to.

I even use it with little old ladies. "My goodness, I can tell, if you were my Grandma, you would totally bake me cookies every day, even though my mommy told you not to." They all love it!